DAY 2

Oh, hey your back! Either you’re super bored or you actually liked something in my earlier blog. So where did we leave off before, oh that’s right how relationships are a daily no I would say hourly struggle. One minute you're fine agreeing with everything the next minute you’re upset or in your feelings because someone said something hurtful, or you took it the wrong way. But is it that you’re taking stuff personally? Are you not understanding it correctly? Or are you not sure how the other person is meaning it? That is usually the questions that you get asked when someone says what is wrong and you VENT to them. But I’m not just talking about struggling with your spouses. Do you notice you struggle with all types of relationships. Cause I will tell you! Me personally… I struggle with my spouse, friendships, and kids. I also get in my feelings a lot, like for example when my spouse and I argue or not argue but get into a disagreement we definitely learn new things about one another. Like literally EVERY argument. But I feel that is the beauty of relationships is learning something new because if not is just gets boring. Your suppose to have different opinions about things that what starts all kinds of different conversations, and this is how you/we learn about people. That is honestly what people love is being challenged by others, but the only problem is they never give their honest opinion because there scared, or they will hurt people or make them mad. But you have to be honest if not you will never truly be happy. That is the beauty though we are humans we are all made different, and we all have different opinions. Actually, I feel like 10 percent of humans will speak their minds on the daily and can not conform and agree with others because they do not agree, and then the other 90 percent of humans are the most opinionated people in the world, but never give their honest opinion they just side with one another. Hold on though, getting way off topic and going on a tangent. So back to relationships if you have a spouse or kids they do not count, but how many people can you count you have in your life, and I mean loyal, loving, genuine, and enjoy spending time with you/talking to you. Because this is really SAD but I have FOUR!!! WOOOHOOO! But I’m okay with that bc those four people have been there for me through the good and the bad.